Pre-Dead Social Club: The One Thing Every Human Has in Common (And NOBODY Wants to Discuss!)
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We don't know how to talk about death.
Longtime Seacoast resident Laura Cleminson wants to change that.
At the Pre-Dead Social Club , Seacoast residents of all ages gather monthly for a "die-a-logue" at author talks, panel discussions, and Death Over Drinks, the club's signature event.
Cleminson, who also delivered a TEDx Portsmouth talk in 2024 , became fascinated with death a decade ago when her mother was diagnosed with cancer. She noticed she had no tools for helping her mother through that time, a realization that eventually led her to become a death doula and the founder of the Pre-Dead Social Club.
From the West End of Portsmouth, Cleminson joins host Troy Farkas for a wide-ranging discussion about death - why we avoid it, her first experiences with it, how to better help our loved ones during that time, how the Pre-Dead Social Club has taken off in the last three years, and why it's welcomed nearly 1,200 people through its doors since then.
To learn more about the Pre-Dead Social Club, visit predeadsocialclub.com .
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CHAPTERS:
SS pub crawl on 9/26! (00:00) Laura's first brushes with death (02:30) Why don't we discuss death? (08:52) How her mom's death changed everything (11:45) Warm your home with firewood from RC Conner (21:15) Visit The Iron Cactus in Kingston, N.H. (22:34) Taking an extreme interest in the end-of-life space (23:55) Starting the Pre-Dead Social Club (31:00) What happens at Death Over Drinks (38:05) Lock in a founding membership at SWTHZ in Portsmouth (42:25) Troy's experience with the Pre-Dead Social Club (43:27) Turning this club into a business (53:15)



